Dating advice for guys in college
When I hear about a girl's man, I'm assuming we probably shouldn't be on that date period.
If she literally can't keep his name out of her mouth for a couple of hours, it makes me feel like she's clearly not over past issues.
Many guys mistakenly believe that the only way to attract women is with money, looks, power or fame. As I know many men who have none of these, yet still have know exactly how to attract beautiful ladies. And how you have to act in order to attract a woman. And even after you have sparked her interest, you’ll still need to do things to get her chasing you.
I can tell you right now that far more important skills are learning how to flirt, or developing a better sense of humor, and learning how to tease a woman. If you want to know how to attract women you must also keep in mind that what gets her to like you is not always what keeps her around. Even though most women will say they hate “the game” you still need to play even after you learn how to attract women.
It would mean they use all their resources to help her be all that she’s meant to be under God. I encourage her to be around other women who inspire her. I’ll talk to young men sometime that say, “I’m dating a girl. I’ve already fused our quiet times together.” I’m like, “I don’t know what that means, man. If you hit the gas on expediting the physical part, you’ve missed what dating is for. Would I want to hang out with her for the next 30 years? Then, as you get to know her emotionally, you start to connect and go, “I think this is the one.” Then you can enter that covenant of marriage, and you’re off to the races.
That is, to see, “Do I like hanging out with this person? Hold off from anything physical, so you can evaluate, are we made to be with one another? If that’s the case, the physical will naturally follow after you’ve gone through the covenant of marriage. Live in the tension of having no claim in her life.
Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.
You’ve honed in on your masculine energy to help take charge but you find yourself burned out, tired, and out of balance.
This is occurring because your feminine and masculine energies are out of balance.
If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.
If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.